Quick Sex

There’s a lot of talk around about long, all-nighters, about the need for extensive foreplay to get things going, using sex toys and changing positions 20 times to lengthen the play time.  Now, nobody’s saying there’s anything wrong with extensive sexual exploits, they’re certainly needed in any sexually active relationship.  However, don’t forget about the lesser known hero, the ‘quickie’.

Many men feel that for the most part women don’t get turned on by the idea of these quick romps, or that women can’t be fully contented by them.  This suggestion, as unfortunately familiar as it is, is completely wrong.  But on the opposite side of that coin, many women out there feel as though asking for a crazy sexy get-together against the fridge or at the office will make them look sleazy or dirty.  I implore you, don’t think this way.  Men that look down on women for needing to express her sexuality and her desire for him in unorthodox ways are very, very rare.

The average woman, while engaging is self-pleasure, can attain orgasm in under 3 minutes, the exact same woman can reach the same goal in a bit under 8 minutes from sex.  Attach the emotional strength of a quickie in the back of a pickup, and the added exhilaration of possibly getting caught will often assist the participants in attaining the end outcome even faster.  This means that most of the time a woman are plenty happy at the end of a speedy ‘meeting’, and even if time runs out before either or both get to reach orgasm it’s still pleasurable and can add a bit of pleasure to your day.

Sex toys also have the ability to enhance the ‘quickie’ experience as these encounters don’t always have to be completely unplanned.  For those couples who are skilled users of sex toys, and even anybody who might want to try something new, keep a small sex toy or 2 with you next time you have a day out.  Keeping a mini, discrete sex toy with you, such as a vibrating bullet or finger vibrator, gives you even more options for excitement when the feeling presents itself.  There are vibrating sex toys (which should typically only be used where there is high ambient noise) which are easily be used on women and men, another option are ‘fingers’ which are usually rubber or silicone and are put on the tip of your fingers and are bumpy or have ridges for extra pleasure.  In addition, you can find sex toys for use on men such as special gloves used to improve stimulation by hand.

There are a lot of popular places to get busy, including:

• While the pasta is cooking
• Discretelyon an overnight bus
• In a supply closet
• In a public restroom (in one that’s clean)
• In the woods while hiking
• Or whenever you’re feeling frisky!

So don’t forget, especially for you timid women out there, voice yourself, let your lover know if you’re in the mood and let those creative juices flow!  Often times the best sex is quickie sex in a random, quasi-public place at 4:14 p.m.

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